As a wife, your heart will often guide you with a woman's intuition. If your intuition isn’t that sharp, the following signs can help you determine if your husband is being unfaithful.

1.   Indifference in the bedroom

When a man has another woman outside of his marriage, intimacy with his wife becomes secondary. His desire and passion for the other woman intensify. As a result, he will neglect his wife, lose interest in her, and often try to avoid intimacy. Occasionally, if the wife initiates closeness, he will make excuses about being too busy, tired, or stressed. If your husband is showing these signs, be cautious!

2.   Change in daily habits

If your husband used to be responsible and always present at home, but now frequently comes up with reasons to be absent, especially during family dinners or in the evenings, it might indicate that he is seeking private time with his mistress. He starts being away more, participates less in family events, and is constantly on sudden "business trips" or long journeys that his work "urgently requires." These are suspicious signs—don’t overlook them!

3.   Sudden demand for privacy

If it used to be normal for you to handle his phone, use his computer, or even access his Facebook or Zalo accounts, but now he suddenly reacts angrily or even forbids you from infringing on his privacy, something might be wrong. Additionally, you may notice that your husband has a new phone or that he frequently steps outside to take calls when he's at home. These are clear warning signs, and you should pay closer attention to your husband!

4.   Mysterious spending

Your husband's spending habits change, with unclear small expenses that he can’t explain. When questioned, he gives vague answers like “business meetings,” “a lot of work,” or “fixing the car.” Especially if he used to give you all or half of his salary but has recently cut it down to just a third, this is another sign that should raise concerns.

5.   Changes in personality, constant criticism of his wife

Men who have another woman start seeing only their wife’s flaws. The qualities they once appreciated in their wife now seem unpleasant in their eyes. No matter what you do, he is no longer satisfied. If you happen to mention criticizing a third party, your husband might show discomfort and disagree. When it comes to family outings or holiday visits to relatives, he appears frustrated and uninterested. He shows no enthusiasm for attending family gatherings, leaving it all up to you. In short, he has changed in personality, becoming irritable and indifferent. It is a clear sign that he is emotionally invested in, or deeply involved with, someone outside of his marriage.