If your instincts tell you something feels wrong in your relationship, it’s important to trust those feelings while also observing your partner’s behavior objectively. Certain patterns, when repeated, may indicate infidelity.

1. He avoids commitment but behaves as if the relationship is serious

He claims he is not ready for a serious commitment, yet acts emotionally invested. This inconsistency may allow him to avoid responsibility while justifying unfaithful behavior.

2. He switches his phone to airplane mode when you use it

If he consistently turns on airplane mode whenever you borrow his phone, he may be trying to hide messages or notifications.

3. He never leaves his phone unattended

Taking his phone everywhere, including to the bathroom, can suggest he is protecting information he does not want you to see.

4. He has significantly more female friends than male friends

If most of his close friendships are with women, especially if he prioritizes them over you, boundaries may be unclear or crossed.

5. He has not introduced you to his close friends

Despite spending considerable time together, he keeps you separate from his inner circle, possibly to prevent others from revealing information about his behavior.

6. His phone frequently “dies” when you are apart

When you are not together, he becomes unreachable and claims his phone battery is dead, which may be an excuse to avoid contact.

7. He avoids taking the relationship to the next level

He keeps the relationship stagnant, doing just enough to maintain it without moving toward deeper commitment.

8. He dismisses your concerns and calls you irrational

When you express doubts, he labels you as “crazy” or overly suspicious. This behavior may indicate gaslighting, a common tactic used to deflect blame.

9. He no longer initiates physical intimacy

A noticeable decline in sexual interest may suggest that his emotional or physical needs are being met elsewhere.

10. He is vague about where he is and who he is with

He avoids giving clear answers about his whereabouts, making it difficult to understand how he spends his time.

11. He frequently cancels plans without clear explanations

He often backs out of plans at the last minute and provides unclear or inconsistent reasons.

12. He lies regularly

Frequent dishonesty, whether about small or significant matters, reflects a lack of respect and transparency in the relationship.

13. He is still active on dating apps

If he has not deleted dating apps or continues to use them, it suggests he is not fully committed and may still be seeking other connections.

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